Limiting the rise to fall.

Thanks for all who have been following my thoughts and sharing their comments with me. It certainly motivates to pour in more onto the blog space. And thus, considering your suggestions, I am taking ahead the same piece of thought further. The intent now is to deep dive into the causes and possible solutions to eradicate “The Rising Fall”.

Let’s first understand what the fall is. Fall is the deterioration of our overall levels of happiness and satisfaction that is supposed to soothe every soul – in their own individual ways.

Individual – is a keyword here.

How often do we value the relevance and importance of this INDIVIDUAL nowadays?

Absolutely zero. This is our first step to take forward in order to curb the growing fall. We need to understand that each individual is unique in their own ways. If not, why did the super power take the efforts of creating us with unique face, unique voice, unique talents, capabilities.

He did not mean to frame us into a single structure but he wanted us to explore our own avenues in collaboration with each other. Until few years back, things were still bearable but now, just think about it. Oh yes, I am asking your precious 2 minutes to think over something I find important for all of us.

What if we like tea and the person next to us is fond of buttermilk? What if a person has never tasted MAGGI noodles – yes it could be right? What if I do not consume alcohol and I am not updated of the most happening events in the city. What if I do not have my virtual identity on Facebook. What if I choose to leave tweeting only to birds? What if I wear only black to work? What if I have not yet been to a vacation outside my country? What if I choose to stay in Tier 3 city, in my hometown, with no multi-storey houses with my parents and still love to watch stars lying down on terrace floor at night.

Let’s allow every INDIVIDUAL to choose their own space and lead their lives the way they want. Let’s not judge them on their choices. What if I judge you on the choices you make for yourself?

If it’s not your way, OR if it’s not trending, it does not necessarily mean useless.

If a child is sent to a government school in India is considered to be low class whereas a public school in US is considered to be a class.

If I am an IIM graduate and choose to utilize my knowledge in betterment of my village in Jharkhand, I am perceived to be crazy, a well-educated girl may not agree to marry me, my batch mates settled in US will keep informing me about the new visa policies. Why?

Why is being Off beat so badly judged and why are such people side-lined from the society?

In fact, why to term it as offbeat? Who knows what the right beat is? The majority not necessarily be the best choice.
We need to understand that the world will still be a good place to live if we have a mix of different people, with different thoughts, different preferences, different lifestyles, different choices.

We do not need to be made out of same cast.

 ·         JE T'AIME

·         我爱你

·         میں تم سے پیار کرتا ہوں
·         ICH LIEBE DICH
·         わたしは、あなたを愛しています
·         ഞാൻ നിന്നെ സ്നേഹിക്കുന്നു
·         TE AMO
·         JAG ÄLSKAR DIG

All look different and not everyone may be able to read them well but the meaning of each, still remains same – I Love You!